Self Confidence and Focus

We can be the person we want to be. Today, is the day we become the better person.

First thing, we need to understand how our brains work against us. Then, we will be able to counter those self denying signal we get everyday. It is just like our brains hacking itself into denial of service mode, just like those servers in the network with overloaded signals to process. We love to analyse and observe, then back to analyse again, sometimes paralysing our decision process.

Workstudy experts have proven that we are working at the best in the first hour. The rest is just sub-standard brain activity. You can beat that vicious cycles of brain denial of your success.

Imagine those days when you cross the road and your child did not follow your instructions. What did you do? You see the cars coming, your kid stuck in the middle of the road. You ran, grap the child back to you. How long did that take to happen? SPLIT seconds. We never hear a parent gets home and say, "Gee I did not know what to do, can you go look for him somewhere under the wheels". Never, never happen this way. Why?

Its all about FOCUSED attention. When you do something that means so much - you will not even think about what will happen if you did not get the kid back in time, because failure is unacceptable. It is the NOW at that moment of split seconds that you truely lived.